While my husband was away recently, I selected a Netflix original movie I've been wanting to see, The Fundamentals of Caring.
We always joke about watching movies the other wouldn't like when he's
away, so I told him this one was about a teen boy in a wheelchair who
might die young, and he was happy to miss it! But it turned out to be a
very funny, moving story of friendship and hope.
Paul
Rudd stars as Ben, a newly trained professional caregiver who went into
the field to try to deal with a devastating divorce and loss. Ben gets a
job caring for 18-year old Trevor, played by Craig Roberts (he plays
David on Red Oaks, a show I enjoyed), who has muscular dystrophy
and a LOT of sarcasm. Trevor's mom warns Ben not to get too close to her
son because his dad left when he was young, and he was devastated by
the loss. But Ben decides to upend Trevor's closely monitored routine
and take him on the road trip of his dreams, to see all the strange
roadside attractions he's always wanted to see. Despite his mom's
misgivings, Trevor and Ben set off in the handicapped van for an
eventful cross-country trip. Trevor experiences a lot of firsts on the
trip but never loses his sarcastic edge, and along the way, they pick up
a cute hitchhiker his age named Dot, played by Selena Gomez, who is
dealing with her own issues.
I really enjoyed this
movie. Despite the heavy topics here - severe disability, loss, death,
and more - it is filled with a dark humor that often left me laughing
out loud. The actors are all excellent, and it's wonderful to see
Trevor's life opening up a bit, even though the new experiences are
sometimes terrifying to him. Ben helps him to realize his dreams, but
along the way - as you might expect - Trevor helps Ben just as much.
It's a moving, funny, uplifting film...and it's based on an amazing road
trip (one of my favorite things, in real life and in movies).
The Fundamentals of Caring is a Netflix original movie, so it is only available on Netflix.
Oh, and I REALLY liked the movie's theme song, This Is the Only Time We Have by Ryan Miller:
I have had Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (ME/CFS) since March 2002. Both of my sons also got ME/CFS at ages 6 and 10. Our younger son fully recovered after 10 years of mild illness. Our older son still has ME/CFS and also has Lyme disease plus two other tick infections. This blog is about how our family lives with chronic illness, with a focus on improving our conditions and enjoying our lives in spite of these challenges.
Monday, December 11, 2017
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